Open Reminders, choose a person from your circle, set days and times, and decide who to alert when they reply, ask for help, or do not answer.
The final review shows days, times, and alerted people in separate rows. When you confirm, you send an approval request: the Reminder starts only after the other person accepts it. Before accepting, the invited person sees by name who will be alerted: the creator and the chosen alert contacts, even if some are not in their own circle.
The name must stay different from your other non-disabled Reminders: when needed, the app adds a number such as (2).
The Reminders page has three tabs: Created by me, For me, and Trusted. Created by me gathers the ones you scheduled; For me the ones others created for you and you accepted; Trusted the ones where someone listed you as a contact to alert, so you know in advance for which people you might be notified if they don't respond. In the Trusted tab you can view Reminders, but you cannot edit, pause, or disable them because you are neither the creator nor the recipient.
In the detail page, the creator and the person receiving the Reminder can remove any trusted contact; a trusted contact can remove only themselves. The creator always remains a required recipient and can never be removed. After approval, contacts cannot be added or replaced: they can only be removed. Removing a contact does not delete the Reminder, which stays active for the other people. A trusted contact can also quickly remove themselves with the trash icon on the card in the Trusted tab.
The creator can disable a Reminder directly from the Created by me list. From the detail page, the creator can edit title, times, response timeout, and alert contacts only while the Reminder is waiting for approval: after the person accepts it, the creator can only pause, resume, or disable it.
If you are the invited person, you can reject the Reminder before accepting it. If you already accepted it and no longer want to receive it, you can stop it from the detail page: the creator and the already-approved alert contacts will be notified.